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Being positive is very hard to do and it sometimes takes more than just assertiveness for you to become positive, but if you are able to find assertive attitudes then you’ll be able to have a positive attitude. The key to being assertive is being focused. You will begin to lose your drive when you lose your focus, but if you are able to see your goals in the small picture form and the larger picture form you’ll always be assertive or driven to reach such goals.
There are no written rules on how you can become more assertive. In fact, rather you are assertive or not will depend on the type of home you were raised in and what type of personality that you have. Those who are more outgoing and positive are more assertive and those who are assertive or more positive. This is because you don’t see the “I can’t’s” but you see “how can”. You see things in a more positive light. There are people who are naturally assertive and then there are people who lack the positive attitude to be assertive. For you to really show your assertive side you have to be very comfortable with the situation that you are in. You have to be comfortable with the people who you are communicating with and dealing with. You have to be comfortable with your surroundings. You also have to become comfortable with yourself.
The first step for you to become a better person and more assertive you have to work on yourself. You have to become comfortable with yourself and with who you are. You will have to be able to look at yourself and see something positive. You will have to keep a positive attitude about yourself if you really want to show others how assertive you are. You will never have the nerve to be assertive about anything if you can not appreciate the world and yourself.
You should also know that you will never be assertive if there is no one to believe in your dreams, your goals, and within you that you can do anything. You need to have someone to believe in you to make things seem so easy to obtain. You need to have someone who can appreciate everything that you do and everything that you wish to do. You should also think about having a support system. There are always people around you to help you gain the assertiveness needed to reach all of your dreams and goals. For you to be assertive you need to be driven, and the people around you are just some of the things that may drive you to become a better person or drive you to reach your goals.
Once you believe in yourself and you have someone to believe in you, you’ll find that you’ll change. You’ll become an totally different person This is because you have a sparkle in your eye. You have an goal that you need to reach and the support from others to reach your goals. Believing in yourself can do a lot for a person’s career, personal life, and general good health.
For you to become assertive and positive you have to find confidence from accepting yourself for who you are and accepting others around you for who they are. You will also want to lean on the shoulders of others when you feel like you are getting off track. When you are confident in yourself you will show others your confidence and assertiveness. You will also increase the positive things in your life by becoming more assertive.
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